It is inevitable that at one point in your child's life, he/she will have a temper tantrum. How to deal with a tantrum is a burning question for many parents. The most important thing to remember when this happens is DON'T LOSE YOUR COOL! Remain calm until it is over.
1. If your child is screaming and/or throws himself on the floor, one of the most important things to watch for is their safety. If your child is not hurting himself or in danger, let him throw the tantrum. Stay close but do not try to stop or encourage the tantrum.
2. If the child is hurting himself, remove him from the danger immediately. If the child causes harm to himself repeatedly along with the tantrum, immediately make an appointment with your pediatrician to discuss this issue. Children can cause serious harm to themselves during a tantrum.
3. Trying to soothe, distract or give in to what the child wants, sends the signal that is it OK to lose control. Instead remain calm and let them know you are ready to talk to him when he is finished.
4. Communicate with your family what you expect from them when your child throws a tantrum. Make sure your expectations are clear and that they agree to the same
5. Let your child know that you love him and you will be waiting to talk to him after he is finished. Do not show your emotions at this time, he needs to know & see that you mean business.
6. Lastly, consistency as always is the best prescription for any type of discipline. A child needs to see consistency in your style of discipline and also need to see both parents on the same page.
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